Heres an email i got awhile back.. n was readin thru it again... n haii... i agree wit so much of this it aint funny.... this guyz a legend... hahaha.. he nailed the nail rite on the head wit da last sentence.. its abit lengthy so just bare with it if u haven't seen it b4...
Garret Hols... we salute u~!!



NICE GUYS FINISH LAST
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>By: Garrett Hols
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>It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it,
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>it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they
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>lavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they
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>listen... until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are
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>in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators
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>really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl
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>tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be
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>assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the
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>asshole. But she claims to love the asshole... now this is where the theory
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>begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the
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>asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are
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>idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He
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>never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally
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>like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look
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>at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their
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>sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT
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>naive. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The
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>problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get
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>attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as
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>a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "Oh he's hot" or "I want to have his
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>children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When
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>they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from
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>the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole
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>gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really
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>the route to take to get action... I have been down this path for all of my
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>post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE... at least not in the
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>women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is
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>because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't
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>he paying attention to me?" so they explore why. They poke and prod and get
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>closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get
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>closer. The asshole finally says, "I've let this beauty dangle long enough,
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>time to boat this bass". It is then he puts on his charade and the girl
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>feels like she has won him... even thought all she has won is an asshole.
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>Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't
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>turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are
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>always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener"
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>you cant do anything about it... just pack up and close shop. There is no
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>way you will get into her pants... ever. There is and never will be a
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>situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just
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>doesn't work like that. The girl wont "come to her senses" and realize what
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>an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies... instead she will just go
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>after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never
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>go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world.
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>Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice
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>guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren't looking for nice guys... they say they are
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>but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO
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>SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.
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>To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with
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>respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this;
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>look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time
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>is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be
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>like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself... because he has
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>listened to it all.